Take the Happy Rhythm of Spring

Dear All,

Wish you all have enjoyed a great Easter weekend! Spring is actually everywhere now.

The weather is becoming more pleasant. Birds are singing, people are singing too, flowers are blooming, fruits are ripe, more faces are smiling, and more happy activities are going on outdoors, online, at home, and basically everywhere. People are feeling somewhat relaxed in such environment, and also feeling a flush of wanting to welcome some changes in their lives, something different but also self-revealing and enjoyable. It’s the season of Spring, a natural season for new lives and changes. This is how lives should be, follow the natural rhythm of Spring, which makes life easier and happier.

What means to follow the natural rhythm of Spring? Remember two key words: New Life, and Joy. Dare to try what you naturally desire even though it means changes, and trust the universe will help you. Do your best and at the same time be relaxed to receive whatever the result could be. Don’t fix your expectation, don’t tighten your nerves, and don’t try to define the infinite potential in yourself and the universe. Yes you are a creator, but let the universe do its part as well, which most time is much better than our best imaginations, even though it may take longer time than we normally plan and can understand.

New life means not giving up your old life, in stead, it means appreciating all the blessings you have received going through ups and downs till now, and it also means looking forward, for what your life is meant to be, even though you can not see its clear picture yet. Look forward, and move forward. Try new things, make changes, build up better habits, enjoy the process, and appreciate the scenes through out the whole journey. No rush, no push, as the real meaning is not at the end, but in every discovery, every growth and every joy in every moment, and every day.

Feel the natural rhythm of your body, your feelings and your soul. Go more outside, watch, touch, smell, feel, emerge yourself into and catch the rhythm of Spring. When you feel the positivity, growth, expansion and joy, take that happy rhythm of Spring, the new life season, and the best time for growth. Spring is also the time for beauty and cleaning up negative and distracting thoughts, and purifying your soul. During other slow or blue days, remember that feeling of happy rhythm of Spring, do things no matter how big or small they are, as long as they make you feel good and better and till you re-catch up the happy rhythm of Spring, like a surfer catching up the right current to make the ride of freedom and joy.

The rhythm is already in you. Find it and feel it.
Enjoy a happy, creative and productive Spring!

Love In Action 2011 Day 42: The Complete Soul Mating Model

What kind of two persons could become soul mates? Does soul mate start only from soul?

Normally we think a person has four levels of status (or composition), body, mind, emotion, and soul/spirit. And we normally draw them in a pyramid diagram and put soul as the highest and rarest status because it’s the purest status and most people most time are not living at that level.

Does soul mate belong to such a pyramid diagram and levels?

I found it does not. People connecting with each other at different levels may become soul mates.

If we take the Soul Mate Union in the center, there could be Four Entrances: Body, Mind, Emotion, and Soul.

From Body: people who are first sexually attracted together could become soul mates. A typical story was like in the movie “Pretty Woman”. But such cases may not be many.

From Mind: people who are friends could eventually become soul mates. We heard many stories about that long term friends fall into love and get married.

From Emotion: people who are attracted to each other at the first glance or after a short term interaction could generate strong affection / love towards each other, and develop as soul mate. Most people may fall into this entrance to soul mate.

From Soul/Spirit: people who are connected through similar spiritual faith and religious belief could become soul mates. There are many faithful, spiritual and successful couples.

No matter from which entrance to find your soul mate, the four entrances share the same attributes: Natural and Sincere. There should be no force or intended arrangement. Soul mating will only happen when it starts naturally and when people are sincere to each other.

By whichever entrance you come into the soul mate union, you will find to complete and fulfill your soul mating, you need fulfill in all the Four Components / Aspects of Soul Mating: Body, Mind, Emotion, and Soul/Spirit. Without any one of them, the soul mate union is not complete and fulfilled, and you could not experience the full meaning and happiness of soul mating.

Any soul mate (the person) is not a perfection though we would think and feel them as perfection especially when we first fall into love with our soul mate.

Then when we get closer and live together, we find our soul mate is also human and has their own different needs!:) There will be wonderful times, also unpleasant times and even conflicts.

After we get into the soul mate union from different entrance, our soul mating may shift between the four aspects. We and our soul mates would work together to reach the other aspects of soul mating, or get back to strengthen our original soul mating aspect, and eventually become soul mate in all the four aspects.

Soul mating is not a destiny, but a life journey, a journey of love, in which we keep learning and growing. When we fulfill soul mating in all its four aspects, our romantic love and happiness will be fulfilled as well. If we say finding our soul mate is a good luck, then fulfilling soul mating is more of our efforts, wise efforts, and efforts in love. When you understand soul mate and soul mating, and how to apply the Law of Attraction and the Law of Love to help you find your soul mate and fulfill your soul mating, you will be really blessed.

My Love Recipe for 2011 Day 42 is:

• Have this article expanded your thoughts about soul mate and its possibilities?
• If you have not found your soul mate, or your soul mate has not shown up to you, how would you prepare yourself for your soul mate?
• If you have already found your soul mate but have not united, how would you attract your soul mate to make the final commitment?
• If you have already found your soul mate and are staying together, are you fulfilling in all the four aspects of soul mating?  Which parts are you missing?
• What would you learn, what would you change, and what would you strengthen for your soul mating?

If any of my soul mate and soul mating related information inspired you and helped you, please share with me and others your love stories to help more people realize their romantic dreams. I will look forward to hearing your personal good news soon and I would definitely love to bless and celebrate for you and your soul mate!

Love In Action 2011 Day 37: The Right Person, The Soul Mate

How often may you think that you want to find your right person and soul mate? How often may you wonder if your current lover, partner or spouse is your right person and soul mate?

It may not be easy to see if a partner is the right soul mate or not. But it seems relatively easier to see if a partner is not the right person now. To see if the person is showing the following “Right Person/Soul Mate” signals:  

The right person is an unconditional lover, who would love you, respect you and care you, beyond their own ego.

The right person is a faithful lover, who would fully accept you and appreciate you as who you are and always hold faith in you.

The right person is a happy lover, who is the endless fountain of love, wisdom and happiness for oneself, which overflows to you and benefits many others.

The right person is a passionate lover, whose passion would cheer you up and keep you melt in the heat of love.

The right person is a romantic lover, who would create romantic time with you regularly and make you never feel bored.

The right person is a big dreamer like you, who would share and pursue the big dreams with you and connect with you in spirit.

The right person is like inside of you, who would listen to you, understand you, and have deep empathy of you.

The right person is a positive creator, who would create wonderful life with you and can’t wait to share more joy with you.

The right person is a loyal friend, who would be there for you all the time no matter if you are up or down.

The right person is like the blue sky, who would forgive you quickly when you make mistakes and would still make you graceful.

The right person has a humble spirit, who would say sorry to you sincerely if they make mistakes and has the emotional IQ and understanding of how much you are hurt.

The right person is like a crystal, who understands the critical value of trust and would be fully honest to you and never lie to you.

The right person is like our challenger, who gets us out of our comfortable zone, and challenges us to find our weaknesses and keep growing to be the best of our own.

The right person is like a personal mentor, who would share valuable things and different perspectives with you and foster your growth together.

The right person with you are like earth and water in the universe, who could make wonderful love with you and make you fully satisfied and appreciated with your both body, mind and soul.

The right person with you are like the sun and the moon, who would chase you and dedicate to the marriage and family built with you, and be a loving parent to your children all the time.

The right person is like our other half, who comes back to complement us, and completes us in the fulfillment of our life.

The right person to you is like a magnet to metal, with whom you would look forward to living a longer life to enjoy the great soul mating, a second life, a third life, and an eternal life ……

My Love Recipe for 2011 Day 37 is:

• Are above definitions of the Right Person / Soul Mate ideal or possible?
• Is your current lover, partner or spouse such a Right Person and Soul Mate to you?
• Are you such a Right Person / Soul Mate to your potential or existing lover, partner or spouse?
• Reflect these definitions of the Right Person / Soul Mate, describe the Right Person / Soul Mate in details that you really want, no matter if you are single, partnered or married.
• Use the Law of Attraction and the Law of Love to make your wish come true. Can our current partner become such a Right Person / Soul Mate even though they may not be right now? Let the Law of Love tell you the truth.
• What would you do to become such a Right Person / Soul Mate to your most loved one?